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Strand Releasing has acquired North American rights for Tristan Ferland Milewski’s documentary “ Dream Boat ” from Cinephil, Variety has learned exclusively.

The documentary has its West Coast premiere on July 12 and 13 at the upcoming edition of Outfest . The film premiered at the Berlin International Film Festival in February.

The film centers on a cruise ship full of gay men, and follows five men from five countries on a quest for connection and freedom. The five men on the ship are natives of Austria, France, India, Palestine, and Poland. International waters provide the opportunity for them to share their hopes and dreams while celebrating their lives without judgement.

Strand plans for a late summer/early fall release this year.

“After docking in European harbors, Berlin, Paris, and Sheffield, I’m thrilled our ‘Dream Boat’ is now traveling under the Strand Releasing flag to a US audiences,” said producer Christian Beetz. “‘Dream Boat’ is already connecting people around the globe and is a reminder that perhaps the most important thing in life is love.”

The film was produced by Gebrueder Beetz Filmproduktion. The deal was done between Jon Gerrans of Strand Releasing and Philippa Kowarsky of Cinephil.

“We’re thrilled to have this exciting documentary for our library and launch it at Outfest for the West Coast premiere,” said Gerrans.

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By Monica Castillo

  • Nov. 2, 2017

“Dream Boat,” Tristan Ferland Milewski’s documentary about a weeklong European cruise for gay men, quickly gets its audience into a vacation mood. It begins with passengers boarding the luxury ship in flip-flops and tank tops. A pair in nautical outfits greets old friends with kisses and champagne glasses. The chatter in the promenade grows as small crowds become a large sea of excited smiles.

Soon, the camera moves from just gazing at passing strangers to focusing on specific men in the international crowd. There’s a passenger from India on his first gay cruise, a Frenchman with disabilities who’s determined to have a good time, a Polish man searching for a soul mate, a Palestinian who’s moved to Belgium and the hot Austrian photographer everyone poses for. Although we don’t yet know their names, the men start to emerge through their stories.

These subjects have been gleaned from a group of largely white Adonises. Mr. Milewski does not directly address race and ethnic background, but clearly has some serious issues in mind. He asks different passengers their thoughts on love, H.I.V. status and the looks-obsessed mainstream gay culture. Although the repeated questions are narratively obtrusive, the men’s voices broaden this experience beyond its escapist trappings.

Some of the tougher interviews suggest that Mr. Milewski would like “Dream Boat” to be more substantial, but that impulse is mostly kept at bay in favor of lighter scenes, like high-heel races around the pool, costume ball preparations and all-night dance parties that give way to poolside flirting. The need to capture so many different perspectives dilutes the intensity of some of the men’s feelings of loneliness and fear of rejection.

Not rated. In English, French, German and Arabic, with English subtitles. Running time: 1 hour 32 minutes.

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Directed by Tristan Ferland Milewski

A cruise ship and 3,000 men – it is a universe without heteros and women that usually remains a mystery to the outside world. Once a year the Dream Boat sets sail for a cruise exclusively for gay men where most passengers are united by the wish to live life authentically as themselves in a protected place.

Director Director

Tristan Ferland Milewski

Producer Producer

Christian Beetz

Editor Editor

Markus Schmidt

Cinematography Cinematography

Jörg Junge Jakob Stark

Composer Composer

My Name is Claude

Beetz Brothers Film Production ZDF ARTE

Primary Language

Spoken languages.

Arabic German English French

Alternative Titles

드림 보트, Cruzeiro dos Sonhos, Álomhajó, 梦之船, ספינת החלומות

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12 feb 2017, 28 jun 2017, releases by country.

  • Premiere Belin Film Festival

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john

Review by john ½

This is like my biggest, gayest personal nightmare. And the movie wasn't too great either.

kyle

Review by kyle

there’s reflections everywhere in this film. in the shiny elevators, the stateroom vanities, the beating water below, the identical gay men who lock eyes for a moment in the hallways or on the dance floor, and ultimately, in the screen of the gay man watching.

The Armando Jimenez

Review by The Armando Jimenez ★★½ 11

This is my 7th LGBTQ film in 3 days. I'm trying to learn different things, especially how it is to be in gay love. I thought I'd see much more septum and nipple piercings(aren't they popular?).

Unfortunately, there was a lot of old and hairy asses... Why do I keep doing this to myself!

Side note: the cinematography of the sea is stellar. Update: I have just learned it's LGBTQIAPK+

thackary

Review by thackary ★★½

this was a mess but marek is so cute.....also this boat seems like hell i'd jump off after 5 minutes and swim to fire island thank u very much

Juan

Review by Juan ★★★

Dream Boat is the kind of film that wants to have its cake and eat it too, simultaneously indulging in the very superficiality it seeks to explore and critique. Dream Boat has a lot to say about gay culture, almost too much for one film one could argue. But by gazing at the ripped masculine bodies of a portion of the cruise passengers instead of diving into just how positive and life-affirming some of the parties can be, it delivers mixed results.

Don

Review by Don ★★ 4

Tries to play with the big boys by referencing themes like internalised homophobia, the importance of physical attractiveness in the gay community and unaccepting families, but the film ultimately feels vapid and messy. This is parlayed by the endless scenes of sleaze, sex and backless pants that permeate the film's sweaty air. Still, there's some things to be gained from the film: it's accepting and non judgemental, especially towards those on the boat that less fit the mould of a stereotypical gay partygoer, and it's strangely well-shot. It's still rather depressing and not much fun (the unsimulated blowjob made me feel a little queasy - great fun when you're a participant or in the mood but not particularly when you're watching them go at it on a busy cruise ship dance floor).

Some of the butts were cute tho

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evan

Review by evan ★★½

Really, desperately wanted a Wiseman-esque portrait of a gay cruise, but instead got something which was somehow missing the much needed objectivity. I'm wondering what this film would have looked like with a straight director? Is that fucked up to say?

Feels distinctly like the filmmaker went in with an agenda to touch on a checklist of subjects instead of letting the doc form itself organically; this is most clear in the staged tableau moments where we hear narration over dramatically staged shots of guys looking into the camera.

This is really such a harmless movie, but it infuriates me thinking about how major this could have been with a different approach.

Tom W

Review by Tom W

Every few minutes, the otherwise-standard and perfunctory documentary-style elements of Dream Boat would fall away and hint at something greater. fixating on series of striking images. Carefully mannered and ordered shots into which repetitious subject matter (speedo bulges) would fold, through which superficial architecture and anatomy would abstract, and from which jarring visual archetypes (Sia, a dozen identical drag Marilyns, batman) would burst.

These recurrent images and montages speak as much towards the alienating, othering effects of queerness, the alignment with and subversion of performative masculinity, the perversely liberating notion of shaking off one set of shackles (heteronormativity) for another (the strictured freedom of 'the scene'), and the tensions of living multiple, not entirely intersectional existences as the profiles and interviews do—only with the added benefit of possessing a power, a sort of silent communication which allows for a catharsis that's occasionally transcendental.

Michael Vincent

Review by Michael Vincent ★★★

Gay party culture is often painted in a negative and promiscuous way and often the superficialness of it all is the only thing highlighted. I’d love to see a film about gay party culture that tackles the positives for once, the fact that gay spaces, or in this case a cruise, are some peoples only safe space or escape from constant heteronormativity, show the community and comradery that exists within queer/gay spaces.  Dream Boat does touch upon some of the positives, and does attempt to present a more rounded view, so maybe it’s not the best film to make this point but I think it’s time to start celebrating gay culture rather than continuously being shown how shitty and hard it is being a gay person.

As a documentary it feels lost, I don’t get what it’s trying to say and it’s trying to say a lot. Still, it’s an easy and quite enjoyable watch with the foundation of something really great.

The Media Diorama

Review by The Media Diorama ★★½

Dream Boat, much like the plethora of hunky homosexuals on deck, cruises through crotch shots, explicit raves and outrageous costumes to find a narrative that explores the pressures of physical perfection from a gay perspective, but regrettably sinks too soon.

Dara Khan

Review by Dara Khan

Alienation in the mainstream culture of cis gay men is a worthwhile subject for a documentary. Dream Boat has its heart in the right place, but executes on its ideas with dirge-like music and oppressive finger-wagging. It's the wrong kind of navel-gazing.

Will

Review by Will ★

just because i relate to the fear of judgement from other gays doesnt mean it's particularly compelling to watch 90 minutes of the same fucking shots over and over.......

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Five men on a gay cruise strive for fabulous while complaining about the punishing pressure to have the perfect physique in this documentary that seems unaware of where it’s going.

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'Dream Boat' Review: Gay Cruise Doc Offers Wall-to-Wall Bulges

It’s not too reductive to say there are two types of gay men: those who love the idea of a gay cruise where they can let it all hang out (quite literally), and those for whom the mere thought of such a venture sends shudders through their system. How audiences react to “Dream Boat” will entirely depend on where they fall on this polarized spectrum. Tristan Ferland Milewski’s ship-bound documentary follows five men from different nationalities as they check off a predictable litany of issues, from body fascism to HIV, acceptance at home to the search for love. If wall-to-wall bulges and mind bogglingly awful fetish gear float your boat, then welcome on board; others will have every fear confirmed. Needless to say, “Dream Boat” will find a hospitable berth at nearly every LGBTQ festival imaginable.

The Cruise is an all-male week-long voyage from Lisbon to the Canary Islands in a ship that holds 2,386 passengers. For many who come from societies less than friendly to “out” behavior, it promises the powerful experience of being yourself in an open-air, protective environment. For those used to living openly, the ship has the lure of a 7-day rave where displaying your pecs and abs is a far more effective mating ritual than mere peacock plumage. But if your delts can’t come up to even Zac Efron standards, then old-fashioned charm won’t do the trick when set against an intimidating array of thousands of preening supermen stuffed into Speedos.

Milewski’s subjects all want to be loved for what’s inside but they know that packaging gets all the attention. There’s Polish-born, UK resident Marek, blessed with a face and body that would attract most appreciators of the male form, yet lacking the confidence to know what to do with his physical charms. For Indian Dipankar, living in Dubai, the cruise starts as an abject lesson in how to feel lonely amidst thousands, though by the end he claims to have reached an epiphany. Frenchie Philippe is an anomaly in a wheelchair, the result of a meningitis infection 20 years earlier. Although traveling with his indulgent partner, he wonders what sort of luck he’d have with all these hot guys were he single. Palestinian Ramzi is on board with his Belgian partner, celebrating the latter’s recovery from cancer. Finally there’s Martin from Austria, the least developed of the bunch but presumably included because he’s living with HIV.

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For Marek, Dipankar, and Ramzi, all familiar with homophobia at home, the cruise offers the illusion of solidarity; Philippe and Martin must have experienced such issues earlier in their lives, but seem to have moved beyond questions of acceptance. All except Martin express unhappiness with the gay community’s emphasis on the form fantastic, and even Ramzi, no slouch in the muscle department, has a moment of insight when he comments on the problematic standardization of gay male beauty: the same designer beard, the same clothes, the same biceps.

Milewski contrasts these brief moments of doubt with endless semi-naked tea dances, high-heel races, dress-up parties, and so many bulges that any connection between sexiness and well-filled underwear is quickly jettisoned. It’s almost as if the director is saying, “Why complain? Look how fabulous it all is!” While that’s unlikely to be his intention, the documentary seems even less self-aware than most of the passengers — and that’s saying something. No doubt everyone on-board signed a waiver allowing his image to be used, giving them license to preen for the cameras; at moments when the lensing seems too intrusive, it’s worth remembering that everyone is performing, whether they’re aware of it or not. Music rights for all the disco scenes must have been prohibitive, so composing-performing duo My Name Is Claude provide all the accompaniment.

Reviewed at Berlin Film Festival (Panorama), Feb. 18, 2017. Running time: 92 MIN.

  • Production: (Documentary – Germany) A Real Fiction Filme release of a Gebrueder Beetz Filmproduktion, ZDF production, in association with Arte. (International sales: Cinephil, Tel Aviv.) Producer: Christian Beetz. Creative producers: Kerstin Meyer-Beetz, Tuan Lam.
  • Crew: Director, writer: Tristan Ferland Milewski. Camera (color): Jörg Junge, Jakob Stark. Editor: Markus CM Schmidt. Music: My Name Is Claude.
  • With: (English, French, German dialogue)

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“Let’s take the boys to sea!” announces the captain of the ship embarking on a weeklong European cruise geared specifically to gay men. That this is not your ordinary love boat is made apparent by the housekeepers leaving condoms instead of chocolates on the beds in the cabins. Tristan Ferland Milewski’s engaging documentary Dream Boat chronicles one such cruise, focusing on several of its travelers whose personal issues aren’t left behind on dry land.

The film’s main subjects are 24-year-old Marek , a Polish personal trainer whose chiseled physique easily attracts many admirers, but who wants someone to love him for his mind as well as his body; 32-year-old Dipankar , born in India but who now lives in Dubai, where he could be put in prison because of his sexual orientation; 47-year-old Philippe, from France, who has been in a wheelchair for 20 years as a result of a bout with meningitis and doesn’t let his condition prevent him from hitting the dance floor, where his seated position gives him an excellent vantage point of his fellow revelers’ bulging crotches; 31-year-old Ramzi , who fled his native Palestine after being persecuted for his homosexuality and now lives with a partner in Belgium; and 42-year-old Martin, an Australian who doesn’t let his HIV positive status prevent him from joyfully embracing life.

Release date: Nov 03, 2017

’s an outlier.””]

That the film concentrates on this multi-ethnic group and their emotional and physical issues makes it clear that the filmmaker is not interested in simply exploiting the setting for its cliched camp value. But that doesn’t mean that Dream Boat isn’t above celebrating the setting’s hedonistic aspects. After all, the first shot after the credits roll is that of a toned bare ass. The cruise is filled with such activities as the “high-heels run” on the main deck and the outfits on display often amount to little more than brightly colored jockstraps.

But such pleasure seeking comes at a price, according to the participants. One man bemoans the pressure to look good, although he points out that all one really needs is a “good dick and a good ass.” Others describe their anxieties over aging and losing their looks. “You have to suffer to be beautiful,” comments one older man as he’s being tightly tied into a corset. Still others lament the concentration on hooking up above all else. “I never, ever felt lonely until I came on this trip,” one man points out.

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Dream Boat isn’t fully successful in its balancing act, trying to have its beefcake and eat it, too, by toggling back and forth between emotional confessions and visual feasting on the parade of scantily clad, sculptured male bodies on display (when one traveler enthuses, “The buffet is open,” it’s pretty clear he’s not talking about food). But the well-chosen profile subjects prove both engaging and sympathetic in their fears and desires, giving the film a much-needed emotional resonance.

Production company: Gebrueder Beetz Filmproduktion , ZDF , ARTE Distributor: Strand Releasing Director-screenwriter: Tristan Ferland Milewski Producers: Christian Beetz Directors of photography: Jorg Junge , Jakob Stark Editor: Markus CM Schmidt Composer: My Name is Claude

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11 things I learned on my 1st gay cruise

Matt Moffitt

You've probably heard of gay cruises and wondered how they differ from "traditional" cruises. Are they open to straight people? Is it all about partying? What about the hook-up element?

I recently sailed with tour operator Vacaya on a one-week gay cruise departing from Fort Lauderdale and heading to the Caribbean via Celebrity Cruises ' Celebrity Reflection cruise ship. For context, I'm a white, cisgender, gay, 35-year-old man. I had a lot of questions about what to expect, given this was my second cruise ever and my first one with a queer tour operator.

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Here are the top things I'd want someone considering or planning their first gay cruise to know.

People are friendly

The first thing that struck me about the sailing was that almost everyone was smiling and eager to interact. As an Australian living in the U.S. for almost a decade, I generally find Americans to be open, talkative and curious. This cruise was like that ... on steroids.

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I would have found it overwhelming if I weren't an extrovert, but since I'm a social butterfly, I was in heaven.

Tip: Taking the stairs between levels on the ship is a great way to keep in shape. However, opt for the elevators if you are searching for moments of lighthearted connection. Waiting for an elevator to arrive at your floor and then jumping in with other guests gives you a quick opportunity for some enjoyable small talk.

Partying is front and center

The rumors are spot on. Gay cruises have tons of parties, sometimes multiple a day. If you're on a weeklong sailing, it's important to pace yourself.

Most of the parties on my cruise took place outside by the pool and started at 10:30 p.m. The late start gave enough time for passengers to eat dinner, attend an evening show and get dressed in theme.

Highlights on my cruise included a Super Bowl party (the day we boarded), a traffic light party (the gay cruise version of an icebreaker activity, see below) and the "She's A Mess" party on the final afternoon (where passengers donned one piece from each costume they'd worn throughout the week).

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It's also a good idea to plan your outfits well in advance — people get really into the party themes. You can find information about theme nights on your tour operator's website.

Related: 12 gay cruises you don't want to miss

It's sex-positive

Going into the cruise, one of my biggest questions was, "Would people be hooking up all over the ship in public places?" On this particular Vacaya cruise, I did not see anything like that. (I can't speak for other sailings, though.) However, sexual expression was a prominent feature of the cruise — and I loved it.

I appreciated the three types of lanyards that Vacaya offered upon boarding. It was the traffic light system: red for "taken," yellow for "it's complicated/maybe" and green for "available." This made it easy to understand what kind of interaction someone wanted. At the traffic light party on the second night, I estimated 60% of the passengers were dressed in green, 30% in yellow and the remaining 10% in red.

One unique feature Vacaya had on this cruise was a late-night "dark room" on the rooftop basketball court. It was very popular.

The crew won't judge you

Cruise ships hire crew members from around the world, with many coming from more conservative countries. I wasn't sure how they'd react to thousands of openly gay men taking over their cruise ship.

Once on board, I realized my concerns were overblown. The Celebrity Cruises crew — waiters, room stewards, bartenders — were consistently friendly. I never sensed any judgment from them. They didn't even bat an eyelid when a drunk gay guy wearing nothing but underwear came to a bar to order a drink. I'm not saying I was that guy.

Choose your cruise carefully

The one major lesson I learned is that it's important to do your research.

On this cruise, I sometimes felt like a fish out of water. At 35, I was one of the youngest on the sailing. Vacaya skews older (think: Gen X and boomers), whereas I've heard Atlantis gay cruises attract mainly twinks and daddies.

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Of the well-known queer cruises, Atlantis is for your circuity gays, and Olivia is for queer women. Vacaya skews toward a more inclusive and welcoming experience for everyone (although it needs more work in this area). Body positivity was an obvious component of my Vacaya cruise, and I heard many passengers say they appreciated this.

Related: These LGBTQ-focused travel companies can help you plan the perfect cruise

Gay cruise travel is a huge (and growing) market

Queer travelers account for 5% to 10% of the global tourism market, according to the World Tourism Organization . Couple that with the huge growth in cruising over the past decade (excluding the pandemic), and it's obvious that cruise and tour operators can earn a lot from catering to LGBTQI+ travelers.

For example, Fort Lauderdale saw four sold-out LGBTQI+ cruises in February 2023. Atlantis and Vacaya had one each, and tour operator Olivia had two women-focused cruises. Atlantis' voyage on Royal Caribbean's Harmony of the Seas was the largest gay cruise ever, with more than 5,400 passengers.

If you want to go on a gay cruise, I'd suggest booking early to secure your place and take advantage of early bird discounts. With growing demand, I hope to see an increase in the number and type of sailings offered, giving queer travelers more themed cruise options.

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Diversity and inclusion is a work in progress

In my opinion, the cruise was too heavily skewed to a specific demographic. I estimated that at least 90% of the passengers on my cruise were white, cisgender, gay men from the U.S. — and that was on Vacaya, one of the more "inclusive" cruise operators.

The organizers clearly have a strong passion for and commitment to making their experiences more inclusive and diverse. They teared up when talking about their origin story and what they envision for their future experiences.

However, it's a bit of a chicken-and-egg situation. Vacaya has a financial incentive to cater to its base market of white, affluent gay men. But, its future growth lies in providing opportunities that broaden the company's reach to other tribes in the larger community, such as queer people of color, transgender and gender-nonconforming folx, and women.

For Vacaya to achieve that goal, those groups must make bookings and come on board. However, they'll be hesitant to book if they don't think there will be people like them on board. It's a work in progress.

On my cruise, I did see a glimmer of Vacaya's future.

One evening, I sat behind a black trans woman and a plus-size, white cisgender woman in a wheelchair to watch a show in the ship's auditorium. When drag queen Alyssa Edwards began lip-syncing on stage to "This Is Me" from "The Greatest Showman," they reached out to hold hands as they sang along. These are the moments Vacaya hopes to deliver to more queer travelers in the future.

Gay cruises are more expensive than regular cruises

Gay or queer cruises cost more on average than your everyday cruise because they offer premium LGBTQI-focused entertainment, such as drag queens and world-renowned DJs on each sailing. The charter company (Vacaya, in this case) needs to pay not only the cruise line but also the specialized entertainment — and turn a profit.

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Make sure you save up your cash for the room, taxes, gratuities, drink packages and shore excursions — it can really add up.

For example, Vacaya's pricing for its weeklong 2024 Caribbean cruise starts at around $4,000 per room for a windowless inside cabin (same price for one or two people; includes taxes and gratuities). That's roughly 50% more than a "regular" cruise for the same duration and on the same ship, where pricing starts at $2,600.

Many people don't explore the ports

Based on my observations and conversations with other shipmates, I don't think many passengers got off the ship in every port. Perhaps that's because our itinerary featured four back-to-back port stops. Or, my shipmates were too hungover to go out or wanted to prioritize time on the ship they had paid so dearly for. Whatever the reason, many people were at the lunch buffet and lounging poolside during our port stops.

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To be honest, I only got off at Grand Cayman and stayed on board in Cozumel, Mexico; Belize City, Belize; and Roatán, Honduras (all of which I'd visited on previous trips).

It turns out my observations were correct. The Vacaya cruise organizers confirmed that on big-ship Caribbean cruises, many guests typically stay on board in one or two ports. On the company's luxury cruises — which focus more on bucket-list destinations — and Mediterranean cruises, a higher percentage of guests get off the ship daily.

For the record, people who did get off the ship didn't miss much. People mostly used port days to enjoy more pool time and work out at the gym (which, surprisingly, never got busy on my cruise). Vacaya schedules its marquee activities for when the ship is sailing.

Wash your hands

The worst part of the cruise? I picked up norovirus about halfway through the sailing and was bedridden for the final three days.

Norovirus is a contagious virus that spreads through direct contact with an infected person or surface and causes diarrhea, vomiting, nausea and stomach pain. The self-contained, high-traffic nature of a cruise ship makes it susceptible to outbreaks, and on a gay cruise, frequent incidences of person-to-person contact can increase your chances of getting sick.

My most unpleasant memories from this cruise included gathering the energy to make my way from my cabin to the buffet to eat something, anything, that would fill me up before my whole world came crashing down again. Picture the wedding dress-fitting scene from "Bridesmaids." I was Kristen Wiig desperately trying to pretend she was enjoying her almonds — all in front of hundreds of other gay men. Not a peak life moment for me.

The best way to avoid catching norovirus is to wash and sanitize your hands frequently. I thought I was doing a good job of that, but apparently, it wasn't enough. This is a public service announcement to wash your hands more than you think you need to the next time you're on a cruise.

Many passengers come back time and again

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Vacaya has a return rate of more than 70%, which is even more notable given it has only been around for five years. (This was its fifth birthday celebration.) People talk with their feet — and their wallets. If they're returning, they must enjoy the experience and want to reconnect with friends and lovers they met on previous cruises.

If you enjoy your first cruise, it's worth keeping your eyes out for any early bird discounts for future sailings the line may offer during the final couple of days you are on board.

Bottom line

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With LGBTQI+ rights under sustained attack, it was refreshing to get out into the open ocean with other queer folx and let our pride flags fly. The feeling of dancing in the warm Caribbean breeze with thousands of other queer people — and a supportive, open-minded crew — without fear of judgment, violence or harassment is something I believe every queer person deserves.

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"Boat Trip" arrives preceded by publicity saying many homosexuals have been outraged by the film. Now that it's in theaters, everybody else has a chance to join them. Not that the film is outrageous. That would be asking too much. It is dim-witted, unfunny, too shallow to be offensive, and way too conventional to use all of those people standing around in the background wearing leather and chains and waiting hopefully for their cues. This is a movie made for nobody, about nothing.

The premise: Jerry (Cuba Gooding Jr.) is depressed after being dumped by his girl ( Vivica A. Fox ). His best buddy Nick ( Horatio Sanz ) cheers him up: They'll take a cruise together. Nick has heard that the ships are jammed with lonely women. But they offend a travel agent, who books them on a cruise of gay men, ho ho.

Well, it could be funny. Different characters in a different story with more wit and insight might have done the trick. But "Boat Trip" requires its heroes to be so unobservant that it takes them hours to even figure out it's a gay cruise. And then they go into heterosexual panic mode, until the profoundly conventional screenplay supplies the only possible outcome: The sidekick discovers that he's gay, and the hero discovers a sexy woman on board and falls in love with her.

Her name is Gabriela ( Roselyn Sanchez ), and despite the fact that she's the choreographer on a gay cruise, she knows so little about gay men that she falls for Jerry's strategy: He will pretend to be gay, so that he can get close to her and then dramatically unveil his identity, or something. Uh, huh. Even Hector, the cross-dressing queen in the next stateroom, knows a straight when he sees one: "You want to convince people you are gay, and you don't know the words to 'I Will Survive'?" The gays protesting the movie say it deals in stereotypes. So it does, but then again, so does the annual gay parade, and so do many gay nightclubs, where role-playing is part of the scene. Yes, there are transvestites and leather guys and muscle boys on the cruise, but there are also more conventional types, like Nick's poker-playing buddies. The one ray of wit in the entire film is provided by Roger Moore , as a homosexual man who calmly wanders through the plot dispensing sanity, as when, at the bar, he listens to the music and sighs, "Why do they always play Liza?" One of the movie's problems is a disconnect between various levels of reality. Some of the scenes play as if they are intended to be realistic. Then Jerry or Nick go into hysterics of overacting. Then Jerry attempts to signal a helicopter to rescue him, and shoots it down with a flare gun. Then it turns out to be carrying the Swedish Sun-Tanning Team, on its way to the Hawaiian Tropics finals. Then Jerry asks Gabriela to describe her oral sex technique, which she does so with the accuracy and detail of a porn film, and then Jerry--but that pathetic moment you will have to witness for yourself. Or maybe you will not.

Note: The credit cookies weren't very funny, either, but at least they kept me in the theater long enough to notice the credits for the film's Greek Support Team.

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Parents need to know that Boat Trip is a 2002 comedy in which Cuba Gooding Jr. and Horatio Sanz play two randy straight guys who mistakenly end up on a "gays only" cruise ship. This movie manages to portray every possible gay stereotype -- lisping, prancing, obsessively focused on having sex with heterosexual…

Positive Messages

After over an hour of gay stereotypes, the movie shifts gears long enough to put in a message of how we are "all God's children" that feels forced and not very sincere.

Positive Role Models

Gay men in this movie are essentially prancing and lisping stereotypes of the worst kind. Almost all the women are treated as bikini-clad sex objects. One of the lead characters pretends to be gay on a gay cruise in order to win the heart of a woman on the cruise ship; the other lead character spends most of the movie calling gay men "homos" among other slurs and acting grossed out by the very idea of homosexual men.

Violence & Scariness

An enraged woman knocks a man in the head and sends him falling into a pool. Two rival bikini teams have a physical altercation, comedic and sexualized slapping.

Did you know you can flag iffy content? Adjust limits for Violence & Scariness in your kid's entertainment guide.

Sex, Romance & Nudity

Gratuitous nudity: women on a Swedish bikini team do topless jumping jacks. In a cruise ship dining room, ice sculptures of penises spurt water out their tips. Male nudity, exposed buttocks. A gag involving an erect penis in a swimsuit. Frequent, unrelenting sex talk, gags, and innuendo (phallic puns and double entendre especially). Jokes in which suntan lotion is confused for ejaculate. The "butch" coach of the Swedish bikini team tries to impress one of the lead characters by repeatedly shoving a baseball bat halfway down her throat. A woman, thinking the man she's talking to is gay, asks him the best way to perform oral sex; he asks her to show him what she does by using a banana, and she proceeds to graphically show and tell him.

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Frequent profanity. "F--k" and variations. Incessant sexual innuendo, puns, and double entendre employed at every possible opportunity. One of the lead characters uses gay slurs like "homo" and "trouser pilots." "C--ksucker," "p---y," "a--hole," "bitch," "s--t."

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Parents Need to Know

Parents need to know that Boat Trip is a 2002 comedy in which Cuba Gooding Jr. and Horatio Sanz play two randy straight guys who mistakenly end up on a "gays only" cruise ship. This movie manages to portray every possible gay stereotype -- lisping, prancing, obsessively focused on having sex with heterosexual men -- while also finding any possible phallic-related gag, innuendo, or double entendre to employ for the duration of the movie. After being little more than a punch line for over an hour, the movie tries to force in a "we are all God's children" message that in no way redeems everything that went on before that moment. Sanz's character in particular reacts to interactions with gay men by acting grossed out and using terms like "homo" and "trouser pilots," and the movie doesn't bother trying to distinguish whether the character's homophobia is the punch line, or if being grossed out by homosexuality and gay culture is the punch line. Nearly all the women here suffer the same fate of stereotyping: when a Swedish bikini team ends up on board, they seem to be there to make the movie "less gay" and act bubbly as they engage in topless jumping jacks while Sanz and Gooding Jr. objectify them. In addition, there's frequent profanity, sight gags involving suntan lotion mistaken for ejaculate, gags involving oral sex with a baseball bat and a banana, frequent drunken behavior, and a scene with pot smoking. Families hoping for a comedy centered on LGBTQ culture should look elsewhere. To stay in the loop on more movies like this, you can sign up for weekly Family Movie Night emails .

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What's the Story?

In BOAT TRIP, six months have passed since Jerry ( Cuba Gooding Jr. ) was dumped by Felicia ( Vivica A. Fox ) after his marriage proposal went horribly wrong, and he's still heartbroken. His best friend, Nick ( Horatio Sanz ), after running into a mutual friend of theirs who is now involved with a curvaceous Hooters server he met on a cruise, decides that a cruise would be the best way for Nick to have sex and for Jerry to move on. But after an altercation with a man who turns out to be their travel agent, the guys are instead booked on a cruise that is entirely for gay men. Although they are initially horrified and disgusted by the spectacle of men flirting and holding hands with each other while either acting effeminate or speaking entirely in double entendre, their luck changes for the better when Nick's actions inadvertently bring a Swedish bikini team on board, and Jerry is saved from drunkenly drowning by Gabriella ( Roselyn Sanchez ), the ship's dance instructor. While Nick does his best to "act gay" to put suntan lotion on the Swedish bikini team, Jerry continues to lie to Gabriella to win her over with the intention of being honest when the time is right. As they start to become friends with some of the gay men on the ship, the two begin to lose their homophobia, and their facade begins to crumble when Felicia tracks Nick down and says she wants to marry him. Jerry, with the help of Nick as well as his new friends, must find a way to be truthful to Gabriella, and to be truthful to his heart with his marriage looming and Gabriella on the verge of sailing away forever.

Is It Any Good?

Older generations watching this movie might ask themselves if the ghost of Paul Lynde returned to write the innuendo-heavy one-liners that never stop in this dated and cringeworthy comedy. Younger generations watching it might view the premise of Boat Trip (two randy straight dudes forced to spend four days on a gay cruise) with the same flabbergasted shock that just about everybody now experiences when seeing 1950s movies in which the woman of the nuclear family goes out and gets herself a job.

It's a lazy comedy that goes for the easiest jokes, often homophobic or sexist, and also not funny. Gay men are either prancing, lisping, and effeminate, or else they're only capable of speaking in sexual innuendo. Most of the women in the movie exist to be bubbly, curvaceous, and fond of gratuitous jumping jacks while topless in a bikini. The Swedish bikini team seem forced into the story because someone (or the "target demographic") needed the movie to be "less gay." Their existence is as forced as the attempt to mine a message out of the movie by giving one of the gay men actual depth when he talks of the father who rejected him until Dad realized on his death bed that it's OK that his son is gay because "we are all God's children." This epiphany occurs after over 60 minutes of nonstop jokes in which the stereotypical behaviors of gay men and Sanz's character's overblown overreactions to these behaviors is the punch line. The only moments of actual humor come from Roger Moore, who does, admittedly, say one or two laugh-out-loud bits of dialogue. Overall though, an offensive, obnoxious movie.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

Families can talk about stereotyping in movies. How does Boat Trip use stereotyping to mine humor out of gay men? How are nearly all of the women in the movie stereotyped for the sake of comedy?

Some might argue that a comedy such as this one is meant to be "mindless" -- entertaining for entertainment's sake. What do you think? Is this what audiences want after an exhausting day at work, or does it insult the audience's intelligence?

This movie was released in 2002. How might a movie with a similar premise be different if it were released today?

Movie Details

  • In theaters : July 17, 2002
  • On DVD or streaming : September 30, 2003
  • Cast : Cuba Gooding Jr. , Horatio Sanz , Roselyn Sanchez
  • Director : Mort Nathan
  • Inclusion Information : Black actors, Latino actors, Female actors
  • Studio : Lions Gate
  • Genre : Comedy
  • Run time : 94 minutes
  • MPAA rating : R
  • MPAA explanation : Strong sexual content, language and some drug material.
  • Last updated : August 31, 2022

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My Atlantis Gay Cruise Trip – What It Was Like

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The Atlantis Gay Cruise Experience, First-Hand

While most of us have seen an Atlantis gay cruise via social media or advertisements, you’re probably still wondering…what are these Atlantis gay cruises really like?

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Johnathan N. from New York shares his personal experience joining an Atlantis cruise, telling it like it is and offering useful tips for travelers interested in booking!

What Did You Like Best About the Atlantis Cruise?

Total inclusivity on a massive scale was definitely the best part of joining an Atlantis Cruise. I’ve done some other gay vacations, but a huge gay cruise like this is pretty unique.

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Other trips for international gay pride events, ski weeks, and events like Gay Days are great, but the Atlantis Gay Cruise just felt grander. Plus, everything was catered to the gay community.

How Were the Atlantis Gay Cruise Theme Parties?

I thought the Atlantis theme parties were awesome. But I wish I had a little more time to plan out the costumes. I think Atlantis gave us a 2-week notice of the theme, but even so, it was a lot of fun. I had a blast.

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Some of the commonly hosted themes include the Glow Party, White Party Dog Tag Tea Dance, and the Disco Tea Dance. So, at a minimum, you can start prepping the gay party accessories that you can wear to these.

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Any Recommendations for Which Rooms to Book?

Since there’s so much to do on the ship, you honestly don’t spend much time in your room. So, I wouldn’t stress out about which specific room you book.

If you’ve got the cash for a veranda and totally need that ocean view, then go for it. But in my opinion, an interior room is completely fine if you’re on a budget. Plus, if you book a budget room, you’ll have more money for the expensive booze!

ocean view room

The smaller interior rooms usually start around $1200 USD for two people, plus fees. When you have more than 2 guests sharing a room, there’s an additional fee. 

Oceanview and balcony rooms for two people can run anywhere from $1200 to $2400. And then when it comes to suites, prices can easily exceed $5000.

Is the Atmosphere Super Sexually Charged?

The sexual vibe depends on where you hang out on the ship. Without a doubt, there are areas where things are very sexy. On the dick deck at 10 PM, yes…you will get groped… and then some.

The rest of the boat is a bit more relaxed. It can sometimes be “cruisy” but it’s definitely not all sex, sex, sex. Lots of first-timers expect Atlantis gay cruises to be a constant sex party, but it’s not exactly like that.

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The Atlantis cruise I went on offered singles events. These can really help solo travelers or anyone who’s shy get out of their shell. I personally can’t fully credit the Atlantis Cruise event for meeting my newest travel buddy at the time. (We met the night before at a hotel rooftop).

But, we quickly found ourselves in an “it’s complicated” situation and ended up spending 95% of our time on the ship together.

What Should Travelers Bring on an Atlantis Gay Cruise?

Most importantly, you’ve got to bring some sexy swimwear attire. Check out my extensive list of the best gay swimwear brands . Get ideas from bikini thongs to printed trunks, plus everything in between.

People really get into decorating their room doors, too. While I didn’t on my first cruise I will do it on my next one. Most people pack mini dry erase boards to hang on their door along with photos so everyone can get a sneak peek of who’s in the cabin.

decorating doors on atlantis gay cruise

I’ve even seen some groups stick a small ticket box to their door along with some little colorful sticky notes so people can leave secret messages. It’s pretty cute.

I would really encourage getting some costumes for the themed parties. You don’t need to spend hundreds of dollars on them, but you will feel a little out of place if you don’t participate.

At the very least, throw on a harness , a sexy jockstrap , and some shorts you wouldn’t mind losing! I definitely recommend getting some good circuit party gear for the trip.

Oh, and like any cruise, don’t forget your sunscreen , especially since it’s so expensive on the ship.

Related → wolfyy’s Gay Men’s Harness Guide

Did You Witness a “Lack of Diversity” Issue on the Cruise?

This was not the case in my experience. However, I did go on an international cruise, not a domestic one. Perhaps those could be different. There were people from every continent on mine, and it was a great time.

Can Atlantis Gay Cruises Be Overwhelming for First-Timers?

Real talk—I had a panic attack as we landed in Barcelona . I was traveling alone which I have done many times before. But for some reason, the idea of getting on a 5000+ person gay cruise hit me like a brick wall. Later that night, my anxiety started to go away, and getting on the ship the following day was fine.

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I think it’s important to know that every Atlantis gay cruise has so many programmed events happening, that it’s truly impossible to do everything. It’s kind of by design.

The entire experience is sort of a “choose your own adventure” and that’s really what makes it so unique.

Want to go to a circuit party ? Great. Feeling horny and need a little help? Head to the dick deck. Feel like you overdid it the night before and need a more mellow night? Go to one of the many gay comedy, musical, piano bar, or drag shows happening on the ship.

Anything You Didn’t Like About the Cruise?

Honestly, the amount of money I spent on booze. It adds up. Ha!

Any Other Tips?

Some people don’t leave the ship when docked at the ports. It seems most people do on the international cruises, but it sounds like the gay cruises out of Miami and San Diego are pretty much constant circuit parties .

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Atlantis gay cruises can get quite expensive, so there generally wasn’t a huge number of younger people. Unless it was a “daddy” situation I would say 20 somethings made up less than 10% of the attendees.

Your Gay Cruise Alternatives

Gay guys are booking Atlantis cruises like crazy, especially now that we’re out of the woods regarding the pandemic. Check out some of the other scheduled Atlantis Cruises you can join.

If you’re thinking about browsing some tamer or not-so-gay cruises, there are plenty of fun alternatives.

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There are several bear weeks that take place on huge cruises. These are definitely worth a look, including the Virgin Voyages Scarlet Lady .

Cruise Critic  compiles a huge range of the best international cruises. Definitely check your booking options here as well.

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The 9 best gay cruises for 2024 (+ planning tips).

Dance parties, drag queen performances and fun destinations await on these LGBTQ voyages.

The Best Gay Cruises

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Embark on an all-gay or LGBTQ-friendly cruise for excellent entertainment, food and excursions.

Whether you are looking to hop aboard a Pride Week cruise with a major line or sail away with a smaller company that specializes in LGBTQ voyages, the following cruise operators promise a fun, safe and memorable vacation.

(Note: While many of these cruise lines sail to LGBTQ-friendly ports of call, travelers should research destinations to learn more about cultures, customs and safety in each location and determine what's right for them.)

Virgin Voyages

Atlantis events, brand g vacations, celebrity cruises, royal caribbean international, the cruise with la demence, source journeys.

Travelers lounge on a gay cruise with VACAYA

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Founded by avid travelers Randle Roper, Patrick Gunn and John Finen, VACAYA bills itself as the first all-LGBT travel company in the full-ship charter/resort buyout sector of the travel industry to launch in more than 25 years.

"[VACAYA] was sparked by our own vacations, where we all had encountered two very different experiences," says Gunn. "The all-gay cruises were liberating, empowering and fun, but limited to a small spectrum of people. And while everyone loves a good time, there's more to a memorable vacation than just parties. Mainstream vacations offered more activities and destinations, and were accessible to a diverse set of people, but didn't always feel like a friendly, judgment-free environment."

As such, VACAYA set out to bring LGBTQ travelers from across the spectrum together in a welcoming, inclusive setting, while offering varied onboard activities and immersive itinerary options. Cruisers will enjoy traveling to ports around the world, in the Caribbean , the Galápagos, Europe , Antarctica and more. You can participate in shipwide events ranging from themed deck parties to performances by LGBTQ entertainers to rejuvenating yoga classes. Note that VACAYA's cruises are for adults only.

Previous cruisers had abundant praise for VACAYA's voyages, highlighting the company's responsiveness when booking and the kindhearted staff, as well as the genuine connections they made with other passengers on board. Many were also impressed by the events and entertainment options throughout their sailings.

In 2024, VACAYA will offer a number of voyages worldwide. The seven-night Caribbean Cruise on Celebrity Apex in February will sail round-trip from Fort Lauderdale, with several fun-filled days at sea in addition to stops in Puerto Rico, the U.S. Virgin Islands and Antigua. In August, VACAYA has a 12-night river cruise in Northern Europe on board Advance by Transcend Cruises; this sailing includes the Amsterdam Pride event. The 11-night Antarctica expedition on Atlas Ocean Voyages' World Navigator in December 2024 is sold out, but you can join the waitlist.

The pool on a Virgin Voyages cruise ship

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The Virgin brand has long been known for its celebration of the LGBTQ community, and cruise line Virgin Voyages is no different. The strictly adults-only cruise operator aims to provide a unique experience, with onboard tattoo parlors, impressive live entertainment, and dining options that include more than 20 eateries and menus created by Michelin star chefs. This line gets the stamp of approval from previous LGBTQ cruisers, who praise the ships' gender-neutral bathrooms, diverse staff and onboard shows with resident drag queens.

Virgin Voyages offers gay-specific sailings through travel companies like Atlantis Events, but its more mainstream itineraries still offer a welcoming, inclusive atmosphere that attracts LGBTQ cruisers year-round. Virgin hosts a number of events during Pride Month each year, including deck parties and interactive social media campaigns.

"Each June here at Virgin Voyages, we like to go big for Pride Month with larger-than-life events … all monthlong," the cruise line says in a statement on its website. "It's an important time for us – both internally within our crew and for our sailors – to honor and celebrate the LGBTQ community; who for so long has had to continually fight for equality and the right to be seen, heard and included."

Virgin Voyages sails to a variety of LGBTQ-friendly countries, including New Zealand, Greece and Spain. In June 2024, consider a seven-night sailing aboard Scarlet Lady departing from Barcelona with stops in Marseille and Cannes in France as well as Spain's Palma de Mallorca and Ibiza.

Read: The Best Cruise Lines for the Money

The world's largest gay and lesbian travel brand, Atlantis Events was founded in 1991 and welcomes more than 20,000 travelers annually on LGBTQ vacations. For its all-gay cruises, Atlantis charters megaships from popular lines like Royal Caribbean International , Norwegian Cruise Line and Virgin Voyages in addition to smaller vessels with companies like Oceania Cruises so cruisers will have a fully immersive experience.

On board, travelers can enjoy all the perks these ships have to offer (think: pools, hot tubs, sports courts and plenty of dining choices), plus special events like drag performances, motivational speakers, LGBTQ movies on demand in each cabin and high-energy circuit parties across the ship.

"As an LGBTQ cruiser, you're looking for a ship with lots of entertainment, including dance parties and events," says Marcos Martinez, founder of Men Who Brunch, a Black gay lifestyle blog. "One of the best cruise [lines] for gay cruising is Atlantis, since you'll be able to meet hundreds of attractive men and party all day and night on the ship."

Atlantis hosts primarily gay men; women make up about 5% to 10% of bookings, according to the Atlantis website. Previous cruisers said the atmosphere on board was fun, friendly and welcoming, though some noted that the company's customer service could be better, especially when it comes to details about the cruise.

Due to the company's popularity, its three 2024 cruises are already sold out.

Read: The Best Cruise Lines in the Caribbean

Travelers on an all-gay cruise with Brand g Vacations pose in front of the Taj Mahal

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Specializing in all-gay river cruises – and now luxury ocean liners – Brand g Vacations was founded in 2011 and explores destinations all over the world. Chartered river cruises typically welcome between 40 and 200 LGBTQ passengers (and their straight allies), which allows cruisers to get to know one another in a smaller setting. Guests tend to skew more mature (think: 40 and older), and the line attracts both men and women.

Onboard entertainment differs slightly from larger ocean voyages: Expect more cabaret-style entertainment than massive all-night dance parties. Cruisers will also enjoy performances by drag queens, gay Broadway stars and more, on top of typical river cruise perks like sightseeing and lavish meals. Past guests recommend choosing Brand g if you're looking for a well-planned, relaxed and luxurious experience over a busier, more party-heavy vacation.

Brand g aims to provide a nearly all-inclusive cruise experience , with Mercedes or small van airport transfers, upscale hotel stays prior to embarkation, and unlimited alcoholic beverages as well as meals included in the fare. As such, prices tend to be on the high end. Plus, cruisers can feel good about their trip knowing that Brand g donates to causes in the U.S. and around the world that assist LGBTQ refugees, AIDS organizations, LGBTQ centers and more.

In 2024, Brand g sails through unique waterways around the world, including the Amazon, the Loire, the Danube, the Mekong, and the Columbia and Snake rivers in the Pacific Northwest. The line's small cruise ship charters also take guests to Iceland, Spain, Morocco, Italy, Croatia and other European destinations.

Read: The Top River Cruise Lines

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Aerial shot of Celebrity Cruises ship Celebrity Apex at sunset

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Celebrity Cruises sets the scene for an excellent vacation for gay travelers, from its extravagant annual Pride parties to its daily LGBTQ programming throughout the year. The mainstream line has received numerous awards for its inclusivity, receiving accolades from the Cruizie Awards, TTG Travel Awards and Travel Weekly's Magellan Awards for being one of the best cruise lines for LGBTQ passengers.

LGBTQ cruisers can start their vacations off on a high note with a special welcome party on the first night of their voyage to meet other travelers on board. After night one, there are other social events for gay cruisers to party and hang out together. Additionally, Celebrity Cruises was the first cruise line to legally marry a couple at sea in 2018, and it continues to perform same-sex marriages on its ships.

Past cruisers enjoyed their voyages with Celebrity, noting that the line was welcoming, the food was delicious, and there were plenty of areas to hang out as a group with fellow LGBTQ passengers or other companions throughout the ship.

Although all itineraries are gay-friendly, consider booking a sailing during Pride Month in June for an extra special experience. Onboard entertainment during this month includes guest entertainers, a flag raising ceremony, Celebrity's signature Pride Party at Sea and more. The Italian Riviera & France cruise will depart from Barcelona on June 8, 2024, on the new Celebrity Ascent; this 10-night Mediterranean sailing stops at ports in France, Italy and Malta. Private travel companies like VACAYA also charter Celebrity ships for all-gay voyages throughout the year.

Read: Cruise Packing List: The Top Essentials for Any Cruise

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Specifically marketed toward lesbians and LGBTQ women, Olivia has hosted more than 350,000 travelers by land and sea over five decades. Cruisers can choose between river voyages or ocean sailings to destinations around the world. On the lesbian cruises, expect a mix of nostalgic decade-themed dance parties, folk singers, writing workshops, karaoke and other activities. Cruisers can also relax poolside, spend some time in the onboard spa or take it easy in one of the ships' lounges.

Travelers who are looking to connect with others who share similar backgrounds can do so in one of Olivia's specialized programs. There are group and solo traveler meetups, as well as programs like Sisters, which is for LGBTQ women of color; Gen-O, for cruisers 40 and younger; Women in Uniform gatherings, for veterans and those currently in the armed forces; and events for OWLs (which stands for "older, wiser lesbians"). Past cruisers on Olivia's voyages report feeling a true sense of community and belonging on board, resulting in a fun, carefree trip.

In June 2024, set sail with Olivia from Edinburgh, Scotland, to Dublin on Windstar Cruises' Star Legend. Or, visit the islands of Tahiti on the line's Star Breeze in September. Other cruise itineraries include Alaska, the Greek Isles, Mexico and the Panama Canal.

Read: The Best Girls Trip Ideas

Aerial shot of Royal Caribbean International cruise ship

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Royal Caribbean International provides a welcoming and inclusive experience for LGBTQ travelers. The popular cruise line frequently partners with Atlantis Events to offer all-gay voyages throughout the year, but even the standard sailings earn praise.

Highlights of the sailings are the ships' entertainment options (including the Tony Award-winning musical "Mamma Mia!") and attentive staff, according to past cruisers. Itineraries typically include LGBTQ meetups at the beginning of each cruise for gay travelers to meet like-minded passengers. Outside of the sailing experience, Royal Caribbean has also publicly committed to supporting the LGBTQ community throughout the year, and it was the first cruise line to earn the title "Gay Traveler Approved" from GayTravel in 2016.

In 2024, consider a Royal Caribbean voyage that sails to gay-friendly destinations. "Puerto Vallarta, Mexico, [is] full of gay bars, clubs and gay beaches," says Martinez. Hop aboard Navigator of the Seas in May for a seven-night sailing round-trip from Los Angeles that stops in Cabo San Lucas, Puerto Vallarta and Ensenada, Mexico. Navigator of the Seas also hosts a seven-night itinerary throughout the year that calls on Mazatlan, Mexico, as well.

Ready to plan a cruise? Find the best value sailings on  GoToSea , a service of U.S. News.

A party on board The Cruise With La Demence

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According to past cruisers, if you're looking for one of the best party scenes on the open seas, consider an all-gay cruise with La Demence. Powered by a popular gay nightclub in Brussels with the same name, La Demence – French for "the madness" – primarily caters to a European crowd. Most passengers are male, though women are also welcome.

On board, passengers should expect to dance the night away at massive deck parties that last into the wee hours of the morning. The line prides itself on its top-notch DJs, impressive light setup and electric party atmosphere. Previous cruisers had high praise for the itineraries – which exclusively visit gay-friendly locations – as well as the fruity cocktails, themed nights (costumes strongly encouraged) and glamorous entertainment. Enjoy unique events like drag bingo, high heel runs and more.

La Demence sails every summer to European destinations like Greece, Italy and Malta. The 2023 cruise was chartered on Royal Caribbean's Explorer of the Seas. Fares include all food and nonalcoholic beverages, plus access to all parties, shows and the onboard gym.

Read: The Top Party Cruises

Source Journeys has been planning luxury vacations for LGBTQ travelers for more than 20 years. The Miami-based company, with the vision of founder and chief executive officer Craig Smith, offers small group land tours and full-charter cruises for like-minded travelers with a focus on giving back to the communities they visit. The company also supports LGBTQ organizations, such as the National Gay & Lesbian Task Force and the Human Rights Campaign.

Past guests of their tours say their fellow travelers were as fun and interesting as the destinations. They appreciated the excellent personalized planning for the trips by Smith and his life partner, Rafael Rodriguez.

The company's cruises in 2024 include a seven-night Galápagos sailing in late September on a Relais & Chateau luxury yacht: Ecoventura's new ship, Evolve. The intimate ship accommodates just 20 passengers. Source Journeys is also offering a seven-night river cruise through Burgundy and Provence, France, in June on Avalon Waterways' Avalon Poetry II, as well as a seven-night voyage from Venice along the Dalmatian Coast. This ocean cruise scheduled in August is chartered on Star Clippers' masted sailing ship, Royal Clipper.

Frequently Asked Questions

When it comes to gay cruising, gone are the days of discreet "Friends of Dorothy" meetups. The term – a euphemism that dates back to the 1950s – was once used to indicate gay social events on daily cruise line programs, without explicitly calling out members of the community on board. It's a far cry from today's LGBTQ cruising industry, which loudly and proudly celebrates passengers from all walks of life.

According to experts, LGBTQ cruising is a market that will only continue to grow. Travelers can take their pick between cruise operators tailored specifically to queer communities and major cruise lines that offer festive Pride celebrations and inclusive onboard entertainment. As travel on the high seas continues to grow in popularity for vacationers, gay and lesbian travelers should consider setting sail on a fun-filled cruise vacation for their next trip.

When planning a cruise, vacationers should first consider what their ideal sailing looks like.

Gay-friendly vs. all-gay sailings: Cruisers should think about whether they'd like to travel aboard a gay-friendly mainstream line – such as Celebrity Cruises or Virgin Voyages – or opt for an all-gay, full-ship charter with a third-party vacation company.

"Each and every LGBTQIAPK person has a different level of comfortability in their 'outness,' " says Patrick Gunn, co-founder and chief marketing officer of LGBTQ vacation company VACAYA. Of VACAYA's all-gay charters, he adds, "For one magical week, our community gets to be the majority and live life out loud in the blissful utopia VACAYA creates on a gay cruise. That single change from being an always-minority to a sudden majority can have a profoundly positive real-world effect on individuals."

  • Travel style: Some cruise operators (think: Atlantis Events and La Demence) are known for their electrifying all-night parties, which may be perfect for gay groups of friends. Meanwhile, other companies like VACAYA and Olivia look to provide a more diverse selection of activities, ranging from tea dances (LGBTQ parties that, historically, included tea service) to philanthropic service activities to immersive onshore experiences.
  • Ports of call: Some of the most LGBTQ- and gay-friendly destinations for cruises include: Fort Lauderdale, Florida; Sydney; Barcelona, Spain; Taipei (Keelung), Taiwan; Helsinki; Quebec City; Auckland, New Zealand; Mykonos, Greece; Reykjavik, Iceland; Amsterdam; Tel Aviv, Israel; Buenos Aires, Argentina; and San Francisco. Countries that gay travelers may want to avoid include the Maldives, Jamaica, Morocco, Malaysia and Haiti, as homosexuality is illegal in these destinations.

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John Wayne, Lana Turner, and Tab Hunter in The Sea Chase (1955)

5. The Sea Chase

Vivien Leigh and Conrad Veidt in Dark Journey (1937)

6. Dark Journey

Erika Eleniak, Ice-T, and Dylan Walsh in Final Voyage (1999)

7. Final Voyage

An Affair to Remember (1957)

8. An Affair to Remember

Fay Wray and King Kong in King Kong (1933)

9. King Kong

Edward G. Robinson, John Garfield, and Ida Lupino in The Sea Wolf (1941)

10. The Sea Wolf

Bette Davis and Claude Rains in Now, Voyager (1942)

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Ernest Borgnine, Gene Hackman, Leslie Nielsen, Red Buttons, Roddy McDowall, Stella Stevens, Shelley Winters, Jack Albertson, Carol Lynley, Pamela Sue Martin, Arthur O'Connell, and Eric Shea in The Poseidon Adventure (1972)

12. The Poseidon Adventure

Poseidon (2006)

13. Poseidon

Vivica A. Fox, Cuba Gooding Jr., Roselyn Sanchez, and Horatio Sanz in Boat Trip (2002)

14. Boat Trip

The Last Voyage (1960)

15. The Last Voyage

A Night to Remember (1958)

16. A Night to Remember

Ship of Fools (1965)

17. Ship of Fools

Jack Lemmon and Walter Matthau in Out to Sea (1997)

18. Out to Sea

Sandra Bullock and Jason Patric in Speed 2: Cruise Control (1997)

19. Speed 2: Cruise Control

Beyond the Poseidon Adventure (1979)

20. Beyond the Poseidon Adventure

Richard Harris, Omar Sharif, Shirley Knight, David Hemmings, Clifton James, and Roy Kinnear in Juggernaut (1974)

21. Juggernaut

Doris Day, Jack Carson, Don DeFore, and Janis Paige in Romance on the High Seas (1948)

22. Romance on the High Seas

Ruth Chatterton and Walter Huston in Dodsworth (1936)

23. Dodsworth

Adam Sandler in Going Overboard (1989)

24. Going Overboard

The Bermuda Triangle (1978)

25. The Bermuda Triangle

Death on the Nile (1978)

26. Death on the Nile

Robert Lowery, Sidney Toler, and Marjorie Weaver in Charlie Chan's Murder Cruise (1940)

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Fascination Amour (1999)

28. Fascination Amour

U Me Aur Hum (2008)

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30. Titanic

The Chambermaid on the Titanic (1997)

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Madeleine Carroll, Franklin Dyall, and John Stuart in Atlantic (1929)

32. Atlantic

Table for Five (1983)

33. Table for Five

Groucho Marx, Chico Marx, Harpo Marx, and Zeppo Marx in Monkey Business (1931)

34. Monkey Business

Rob Hedden and Kane Hodder in Friday the 13th Part VIII: Jason Takes Manhattan (1989)

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Fred Astaire and Ginger Rogers in Shall We Dance (1937)

36. Shall We Dance

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37. Royal Wedding

Doctor in Trouble (1970)

38. Doctor in Trouble

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39. Blondie Goes Latin

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    By Monica Castillo. Nov. 2, 2017. "Dream Boat," Tristan Ferland Milewski's documentary about a weeklong European cruise for gay men, quickly gets its audience into a vacation mood. It begins ...

  5. Gay Cruise Documentary 'Dream Boat' Lands at Strand for U.S.

    The film centers on a cruise ship full of gay men, and follows five men from five countries on a quest for connection and freedom. The five men on the ship are natives of Austria, France, India ...

  6. ‎Dream Boat (2017) directed by Tristan Ferland Milewski

    Synopsis. A cruise ship and 3,000 men - it is a universe without heteros and women that usually remains a mystery to the outside world. Once a year the Dream Boat sets sail for a cruise exclusively for gay men where most passengers are united by the wish to live life authentically as themselves in a protected place. 92 mins More at IMDb TMDb.

  7. 'Dream Boat' Review: Gay Cruise Doc Offers Wall-to-Wall Bulges

    Berlin Film Review: 'Dream Boat'. Five men on a gay cruise strive for fabulous while complaining about the punishing pressure to have the perfect physique in this documentary that seems ...

  8. 'Dream Boat': Film Review

    Tristan Ferland Milewski's documentary 'Dream Boat' profiles several travelers on a weeklong cruise catering to gay men.

  9. Boat Trip (film)

    Boat Trip is a 2002 American romantic comedy film directed by Mort Nathan in his feature film directorial debut and starring Cuba Gooding Jr., Horatio Sanz, Vivica A. Fox, Roselyn Sánchez, and Roger Moore.The film was released in the United States on March 21, 2003, and was a critical and commercial failure.

  10. Gay cruise documentary sets sail from Berlin Film Festival

    Land-locked Berlin ships out with gay cruise documentary 'Dream Boat'. The true test of quality for any documentary film is whether it avoids the obvious. Take the subject of Dream Boat, for instance: a film about a Mediterranean cruise packed with three thousand gay men. There must have been a strong temptation for director Tristan Ferland ...

  11. Watch Boat Trip

    Boat Trip. Academy Award winner Cuba Gooding, Jr. and Horatio Sanz are accidentally booked on a singles cruise for gay men. 850 IMDb 4.9 1 h 34 min 2003. R. Comedy · LGBTQ · Drama. This video is currently unavailable. to watch in your location. Details.

  12. Going Overboard (1989)

    Going Overboard: Directed by Valerie Breiman. With Burt Young, Adam Sandler, Scott LaRose, Lisa Collins. A struggling young comedian takes a menial job on a cruise ship hoping for his big chance to make it in the world of cruise-ship comedy.

  13. Things I learned on my first gay cruise

    The one major lesson I learned is that it's important to do your research. On this cruise, I sometimes felt like a fish out of water. At 35, I was one of the youngest on the sailing. Vacaya skews older (think: Gen X and boomers), whereas I've heard Atlantis gay cruises attract mainly twinks and daddies.

  14. Boat Trip movie review & film summary (2003)

    The gays protesting the movie say it deals in stereotypes. So it does, but then again, so does the annual gay parade, and so do many gay nightclubs, where role-playing is part of the scene. Yes, there are transvestites and leather guys and muscle boys on the cruise, but there are also more conventional types, like Nick's poker-playing buddies.

  15. Boat Trip Movie Review

    Parents need to know that Boat Trip is a 2002 comedy in which Cuba Gooding Jr. and Horatio Sanz play two randy straight guys who mistakenly end up on a "gays only" cruise ship. This movie manages to portray every possible gay stereotype -- lisping, prancing, obsessively focused on having sex with heterosexual men -- while also finding any possible phallic-related gag, innuendo, or double ...

  16. Daddy Cruise®

    We'll Take Care of You. There's only one way you'll know if cruising with us is right for you: contact Brian at 614-799-1390 or [email protected]. "Every day I talk with singles, or couples who want to invite a single friend—gay or straight—to join them," Brian says. "My goal is for you to feel confident that this is the right ...

  17. Ghost Ship (2002)

    Ghost Ship: Directed by Steve Beck. With Gabriel Byrne, Julianna Margulies, Ron Eldard, Desmond Harrington. A salvage crew discovers a long-lost 1962 passenger ship floating lifeless in a remote region of the Bering Sea, and soon notices that its long-dead inhabitants may still be on board.

  18. My Atlantis Gay Cruise Trip

    On the dick deck at 10 PM, yes…you will get groped… and then some. The rest of the boat is a bit more relaxed. It can sometimes be "cruisy" but it's definitely not all sex, sex, sex. Lots of first-timers expect Atlantis gay cruises to be a constant sex party, but it's not exactly like that. The Atlantis cruise I went on offered ...

  19. The 9 Best Gay Cruises for 2024 (+ Planning Tips)

    The Italian Riviera & France cruise will depart from Barcelona on June 8, 2024, on the new Celebrity Ascent; this 10-night Mediterranean sailing stops at ports in France, Italy and Malta. Private ...

  20. Cruise Ships Movies

    On New Year's Eve, the luxury ocean liner Poseidon capsizes after being swamped by a rogue wave. The survivors are left to fight for their lives as they attempt to escape the sinking ship. Director: Wolfgang Petersen | Stars: Richard Dreyfuss, Kurt Russell, Emmy Rossum, Josh Lucas. Votes: 110,405 | Gross: $60.67M.