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Sumatra's northernmost province, Aceh is both a fiercely proud and prosperous region. It's blessed with rainforests that feature incredible biodiversity, as well as pristine islands popular with beachgoers, divers and surfers alike. However, over the years, this western tip of the Indonesian archipelago has grabbed headlines for all the wrong reasons. Earthquakes, tsunamis, civil war and sharia law are the main associations people have with Sumatra’s northernmost state. With the reconstruction from the 2004 Boxing Day tsunami long completed, post-tsunami Aceh is slowly healing the social wounds incurred by the natural disaster and the previous civil war. Still, while the guns have been laid down and a degree of autonomy has been granted to the province, there are occasional blips on the road to peace, and a prevailing belief in the rest of Sumatra that the people of Aceh are keen to spread their conservative Islamic ways across the whole country.

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15 Best Things to Do in Aceh (Indonesia)

Aceh is a province in the northern tip of Indonesia and sees far fewer visitors than many other parts of the country. The province is known for the devastating tsunami of 2004 which killed almost 200,000 people, and it is also notable for being the only place in Indonesia to have Shariah law. The province is less well known however for its attractions and natural beauty, but actually Aceh has some of the best beaches in the country, and the capital city of Banda Aceh has plenty to recommend it.

If you like interesting museums and pretty architecture then you will find a plethora of engaging locations in Banda Aceh, as well as several monuments dedicated to those who lost their lives when the tsunami hit. Banda Aceh is not the only place of note in the province however, and you can easily find strips of golden beach and serene islands off the coast. Aceh is also the home of one of the most famous national parks in Indonesia, and there are opportunities for trekking, hiking, and camping all over the province.

Let’s have a look at the best things to do in Aceh :

1. Visit the Tsunami Museum

Over 170,000 people in Aceh lost their lives as a result of the tsunami of 2004, and the Tsunami Museum in Banda Aceh acts both as a monument and an education center regarding the tragedy.

The museum has rolling footage of the tsunami and the aftermath, but one of the most gripping parts of the museum is the waterfall sections which aim to mimic how the towering waves would have felt.

These areas of the museum consist of dark corridors that drip with water, and as you move along you will be able to hear the sound of rushing waves all around you.

It is a powerful and very moving experience and is also one of Aceh’s most famous attractions.

2. Camp at Blang Kolam Waterfall

If you are Lhokseumawe in Aceh Province then consider taking a trip to Sidomulyo Village where you will find the Blang Kolam Waterfall.

Actually twin cataracts, the waterfall rises up over 75 meters and is surrounded by beautiful rainforest.

You can take a short trek out to the waterfall which will take you through lush rainforest with stunning scenery, and at the end of a sweaty hike you will be rewarded with the cool mist that comes off the gushing water.

Many people also choose to bring some camping gear and stay overnight as the setting is incredibly serene, so if you like communing with nature then get ready to set up camp in the middle of the forest.

3. Climb aboard the PLTD Apung

Aceh understandably has a range of attractions dedicated to the tsunami and another one of these located in Banda Aceh is the PLTD Apung which is the name of a large ship.

When the tsunami struck Aceh it carried the ship inland where it has been positioned ever since, and it has now been preserved as a tribute to those who died in the raging waters.

You can visit the boat and even climb aboard and from the deck of the ship you can take in the views that stretch all over the city.

This is a quirky attraction and also a timely reminder of the power of the sea and it is worth the trip alone to see this ship sitting in the middle of the city.

4. Have a coffee at Warung Kopi Solong

People may not realize that Aceh is famous for its coffee, but actually all across Indonesia Acehnese beans are in high demand.

To try some for yourself you need to head to Warung Kopi Solong which has been in business since the 1970s and is famous as the place to come if you want good coffee in the province.

This coffee shop also serves a range of snacks and you can see how they grind the beans as well as their amazing coffee pouring technique which filters the coffee before it goes into your glass.

You can even buy bags of their signature beans here to take home as a souvenir.

This coffee shop is immensely popular in Banda Aceh and is also the place to come if you want to see how the locals hang out in a province where alcohol is banned and bars and nightclubs don’t exist.

5. Enjoy the rainforest in Ketambe

Gunung Leuser National Park starts in the province of North Sumatra and stretches all the way into Aceh.

Many people choose to visit the park via Bukit Lawang in Sumatra, but if you want a more secluded section of the rainforest away from the crowds then the best place to do this is in Ketambe in Aceh.

The park is made up of primary rainforest and is full of a plethora of flora and fauna including orang utans and monkeys.

There are a range of hikes that you can take from short day trips to longer treks that take several days and let you camp in the middle of the forest.

6. Visit the Museum Negeri Banda Aceh

The Aceh Museum in Banda Aceh is a great place to visit if you want to find out more about this corner of Indonesia.

It is not the largest museum in Aceh, but it is filled with interesting galleries and you will find a range of items here such as ancient farming equipment, textiles, weaponry, and even a few local oddities.

One of these is the stuffed baby buffalo which is on display and is notable for having two heads.

The museum is closed on Mondays but if you are in the area at another time then make sure not to give it a miss if you want a fascinating insight into Acehnese culture and history.

7. Explore Rumah Aceh

Rumah Aceh is actually a section of the Museum Negeri Banda Aceh complex and is made up of a traditional local house on stilts.

The former home has been turned into a museum and offers an insight into how people in Aceh would have lived in the days of old.

This is one of the best examples of traditional architecture so make sure not to miss it when you visit Museum Negeri Banda Aceh.

8. Sunbathe on Lampuuk Beach

Some of the best beaches in Indonesia are found in Aceh, although some of them lend themselves to surfing and other water sports.

The currents around Aceh can be strong, so if you want to swim and sunbathe then the place to do this is Lampuuk Beach which is located outside Banda Aceh.

The beach has miles of rolling sand and makes a great spot if you want to sunbathe or paddle in the water.

As the beach is around 20 minutes away from the capital you can easily go there for the day and the beach looks out over the gorgeous Indian Ocean giving you some stunning sea views.

9. Visit Kherkhof

Banda Aceh is full of moving monuments and one of these is Kherkhof which is a large cemetery that is filled with Indonesian and Dutch graves.

These graves belong to soldiers who would have been buried here after they were killed in action fighting against the Acehnese.

Unfortunately the cemetery was partly destroyed by the tsunami and the grave stones couldn’t be saved, but these have now been replaced with simple wooden crosses and you can also find inscriptions of the names of those who died at the entrance of the cemetery.

10. Marvel at Mesjid Raya Baiturrahman

Mesjid Raya Baiturrahman is often referred to simply as Mesjid Raya which means Main Mosque and this is perhaps the most beautiful of all of Banda Aceh’s attractions.

The mosque dates from the 19th century and was built during the Dutch colonial period, and is covered with ornate aesthetic touches.

Once inside you will find beautiful towering domes as well as Islamic art work and the view of the mosque when it is illuminated at night is also not to be missed.

You can visit the mosque outside of prayer time and non-Muslims are permitted to enter as long as you dress conservatively.

11. View Gunongan

Gunongan is one of Banda Aceh’s famous attractions although you may not know what it is at first glance.

Actually Gunongan is a monument that was built by the sultan Iskandar Muda for his wife.

As she missed her hometown of Pahang in Malaysia, Iskandar Muda commissioned the statue which would also have been used as a bathing place by the princess.

Now the monument is open to the public and the stone work and carvings here are well worth a visit.

12. Go surfing at Lhok Nga

Many people may be surprised to hear that Aceh has a surf scene, but just 15 kilometers away from the central hub of Banda Aceh is Lhok Nga which is known for its water sports.

The sea here is choppy and has some great surf breaks, so you can easily rent a board and take to the water to ride the waves.

As well as surfing, kite boarding is also popular here and you can skate across the sea while harnessing the power of the wind.

13. Have dinner at Pasar Malam Rek

Banda Aceh is famous for its night markets and one of the best of these is Pasar Malam Rek.

The market gets going once night falls and stalls are set up that sell delicious food such as noodle dishes, fried snacks, and Indonesian satay or skewers of grilled meats.

This is also one of the cheapest places to grab some of the local bites, so if you are on a budget or just want to sample a range of local delicacies then don’t miss this night market off your itinerary.

14. Snorkel at Pulau Weh

Pulau Weh is one of the main reasons for people to travel to Aceh Province and the beaches here easily rival those in Bali.

Just a short journey by ferry from Banda Aceh takes you to this secluded island which is surrounded by turquoise waters and lined with soft golden sands.

Some of the best snorkeling and diving to be had in Indonesia can be found off shore from Pulau Weh as the visibility is excellent and you can expect a plethora or underwater life including turtles and rays.

15. Climb Pantan Terong Hill

Located in the center of Aceh is Pantan Terong Hill which stands at 1,830 meters above sea level.

Domestic tourists flock here to climb the hill, and the main reason to do this is to enjoy the amazing views from the top.

From the summit of the hill you can look across to the neighboring glassy lake which resembles a cauldron as well as take in the lush tropical scenery.

15 Best Things to Do in Aceh (Indonesia):

• Visit the Tsunami Museum
• Camp at Blang Kolam Waterfall
• Climb aboard the PLTD Apung
• Have a coffee at Warung Kopi Solong
• Enjoy the rainforest in Ketambe
• Visit the Museum Negeri Banda Aceh
• Explore Rumah Aceh
• Sunbathe on Lampuuk Beach
• Visit Kherkhof
• Marvel at Mesjid Raya Baiturrahman
• View Gunongan
• Go surfing at Lhok Nga
• Have dinner at Pasar Malam Rek
• Snorkel at Pulau Weh
• Climb Pantan Terong Hill

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Ask Amy: Should I pay for my nephew’s family’s hotel stay?

Dear Amy: Some of my family members are going to have a mini family reunion in Paris in a few months — the city where my brother lives. My brother’s son, wife and their two young children will be flying to Paris from Istanbul, and I will be flying in from the USA. My nephew’s family and I will be staying at the same hotel.

Several times my brother has mentioned that his son and family are coming to Paris “especially to see the uncle from America.” So, in light of those repeated comments, do you think it would be necessary or rather the right thing to do for me to pay for my nephew and family’s hotel bill during their week’s visit in Paris? And yes, I can afford to pay — but do I need to?

— Dan in LA

Dan: Thank you for asking a question that will be met by a universal sigh: “What a nice problem to have.”

Your nephew and family are traveling for a family reunion, which will include his father (grandparent to the children). Presumably these family members have spent time together previously. I infer that your nephew and his wife have not spent much (if any) time with you and that their children have possibly never met you. You can imagine their excitement and curiosity about meeting their American uncle. Your brother is passing along this family’s excitement, not asking for you to foot their bill or implying that you should.

I don’t read anything in your narrative that should lead you down this path, but if they are in need or you want to be generous in this way, then paying for their hotel bill would be a very kind thing to do. Otherwise, I hope you will bring some small gifts from Los Angeles, perhaps take them to lunch or to a museum in Paris, and — if you all hit it off — you could invite them to visit you in your home, and foot the bill when you do.

Dear Amy: I am a middle-aged single woman and recently started seeing a man my age. I was married for 20 years, and he has never been married. My two children are in college. He is a really sweet, smart, and respectful man. We share a lot of common interests. He recently invited me to his home for the first time and … it is fairly disgusting. Not just messy, but very dirty and unhealthy — with food waste and dirty dishes and pots on the counters.

I’m unsure about what to say to him about the state of his house. I truly don’t ever want to spend time there. Up until then we had always gone out or come to my house, which is clean and fairly nice — like in a normal sense. (I’m not a clean freak or anything.) Should I tell him about how I feel about his house and ask him to clean it up before I come over again?

— Recovering

Recovering: Your guy invited you to his house. Presumably this visit was planned, and he was putting his best foot forward. He is a mature person living in the world. He is making choices about how he is living. I’m not sure asking him to clean his house would be useful.

You should be honest about where you choose to spend your time: “I’m not comfortable in your house; it is too messy for me to feel at home there.” I do think it’s important that you understand the reality of a future with someone who doesn’t take good care of himself and his surroundings.

I hope you will continue to enjoy his company, but don’t kid yourself that you will be able to inspire him to live differently. You’ve had experience in a long marriage; if you two end up cohabiting, you will end up being continually frustrated by his poor life-skills.

Dear Amy: “ Pondering Papa ” asked about unmarried couples sleeping together while visiting home. Decades ago, when my live-in boyfriend and I visited his parents, his mother stated that while she knew that we were living together and sleeping together, in her house we would not: “My house, my rules.”

Several years later when they visited us, I said that I had put them in separate rooms because now it was “My house … My rules.” We all laughed for many years about that. I still miss them!

— Grateful DIL

Grateful: Having a sense of humor definitely helps.

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THE 10 BEST Family & Kid Activities in Aceh

Things to do in aceh with kids.

• 5.0 of 5 bubbles
• 4.0 of 5 bubbles & up
• Good for Kids
• Budget-friendly
• Good for Big Groups
• Good for Adrenaline Seekers
• Good for Couples
• Good for a Rainy Day
• Honeymoon spot
• Adventurous
• Hidden Gems
• Things to do ranked using Tripadvisor data including reviews, ratings, photos, and popularity.

1. Baiturrahman Grand Mosque

2. Aceh Tsunami Museum

3. Lampuuk Beach

4. Rubiah Island

5. Iboih Beach

6. PLTD Apung 1

7. Lake Laut Tawar

8. Boat at Desa Lampulo

9. Aceh State Museum

10. Monument 0 km Indonesia

11. Ulee Lheue Beach

12. Pantai pasir Putih Lhok Me

13. Blang Padang Square

14. Jhony Jungle Trekking

15. Bubble Addict

16. Raza Jack Jungle Trip

17. Our Jungle Trekking with Safar Ketambe

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THE BEST Family Resorts in Aceh

Aceh Family Resorts

Property types, distance from, traveller rating, hotel class.

• Best Value Properties ranked using exclusive Tripadvisor data, including traveller ratings, confirmed availability from our partners, prices, booking popularity and location, as well as personal user preferences and recently viewed hotels.
• Traveller Ranked Highest rated hotels on Tripadvisor, based on traveller reviews.
• Distance to city centre See properties located closest to the centre first with confirmed availability for your dates from our partners

1. Freddies Santai Sumurtiga

2. MB Palambak Island Resort

3. Mahi Mahi Surf Resort

Popular destinations for family resorts.

Kyriad Muraya Hotel Aceh

Pondok Wisata Guesthouse

Lumba Lumba Diving Centre & Beach Resort

Hermes Palace Hotel

Sadar Wisata Guesthouse

Mr. Bean Resort

Portola Grand Arabia Hotel

Treetop guesthouse and bungalows, yudis place, the pade hotel, lhoknga riverside resort, banyak surf resort, kita surf resort, kumala hotel, panorama seulako, thousand hills guest house, mata ie resorts & cottages, portola arabia hotel, wisma rajawali, the coral sikandang, seventeen hotel, salt surf resort, kenangan guest house, winton hotel, hotel kartika, pele's place, family resorts information.

THE BEST Family Resorts in Aceh

Aceh Family Resorts

Property types, distance from, traveler rating, hotel class.

• Best Value Properties ranked using exclusive Tripadvisor data, including traveler ratings, confirmed availability from our partners, prices, booking popularity and location, as well as personal user preferences and recently viewed hotels.
• Traveler Ranked Highest rated hotels on Tripadvisor, based on traveler reviews.
• Distance to city center See properties located closest to the center first with confirmed availability for your dates from our partners

1. Freddies Santai Sumurtiga

2. MB Palambak Island Resort

3. Mahi Mahi Surf Resort

Popular destinations for family resorts.

Kyriad Muraya Hotel Aceh

Pondok Wisata Guesthouse

Lumba Lumba Diving Centre & Beach Resort

Hermes Palace Hotel

Sadar Wisata Guesthouse

Mr. Bean Resort

Portola Grand Arabia Hotel

Treetop guesthouse and bungalows, yudis place, the pade hotel, lhoknga riverside resort, banyak surf resort, kita surf resort, kumala hotel, panorama seulako, thousand hills guest house, mata ie resorts & cottages, portola arabia hotel, wisma rajawali, the coral sikandang, seventeen hotel, salt surf resort, kenangan guest house, winton hotel, hotel kartika, pele's place, family resorts information.